I came across this discussion on the lack of really private methods in Python. Time and again, some of us feel violated that a method that is supposed to be private is somehow accessible to callers (via permissive reflection or otherwise). However, this reaction misses the point of encapsulation.
Encapsulating an object is not about protecting (or securing) the said object. If you must think in terms of protection, then it is about protecting the consumers (callers) of the object. Encapsulation is about freeing your consumers from the knowledge of your implementation details. By doing so, you insulate your consumers from any ripple effect of changes to your implementation.
The term 'access qualifier' for describing public, protected, private doesn't help. Something like 'visibility indicator' might help avoid the notion of access protection.